Sabbatical

Okay, so I know that some of you may be tired of hearing about this, but it has been on my mind lately. I am the kind of person that needs to fully hash something out (or it could just be a female thing, I don't know) so please bear with me.

Excuse the language for a moment, please:

Why am I (0f all people) thought of as "just a piece of ass"? I don't "put out", I don't go out with a different guy every week, and I don't dress provocatively. Is it just some pheromone that I'm sending out into the world that I am completely unaware of? The LAST thing I want is to be constantly hit on by men...excuse me BOYS, who just want sex.

After dating for a year I can officially say that I am sick of it. Now not all guys are bad, I'm not saying that. And I'm not saying that I have resigned myself to become a nun (although that option is looking better by the second). All I am saying is that I am sick of being treated like a piece of ass.

So, as of 11:37pm Central Standard Time on December 19, 2009 I am going on a sabbatical from dating. I will remain on sabbatical until I am found by a man who does not just think of me as something to be had. And I am asking you, the world, to hold me accountable. Yes, I know that probably no one reads this blog, but still it is out in public domain, and it is listed on my facebook, so people do have access to it.

Anywho, I am a single woman and I LOVE IT!!!!! To quote one of my good friends, "Maybe one day I'll meet a man worth shaving my legs for." LOL! Until then, my worn copy of Jane Eyre is enough company.